8 Reasons Why You Are Still Single Today

In less than two months, we will all celebrate the new year. But has the target of having a new boyfriend been achieved? Couples consultant in New York, Lisa Clampitt, reveals the reasons why someone is still single.

According to Lisa, who is often called the matchmaker, in order to find a partner, she must encourage someone to open up to learn more about herself .

One more thing to keep in mind that almost everyone struggles to get their partner but all face obstacles up to one point.

Here are the top 10 obstacles that may eventually lead someone to choose to be single, as reported by Yourtango, Friday (10/25/2013):

1. Unrealistic expectations

"When a client comes up with a very specific list of 100 people, I know he has a problem. But to get a partner, the most important thing first is that you have to be able to open yourself up. really beautiful. Be open because you never know who, where or when you will meet your partner, "said Lisa.

2. Workaholic lifestyle

If you barely have time for dinner, how can you find time to go on dates and enjoy yourself? When a person spends more time and energy on his work than on his personal life, of course, this person will have a hard time finding a partner.Lisa reminds singles to quickly find balance in life, because this is the key.

3. It's hard to choose a partner

"One of my first conversations with clients is to ask about their love life history. But they usually say, women they know are naughty or party girls. It's like there was a trauma. If this is not resolved, it will be difficult for other women to stick," said Lisa.

4. Awkward in social circles

Many people feel uncomfortable in social situations. But the only way to become more comfortable is to venture right in. Remember, you only live once.

5. Limited Access

When all of your friends get married or all your siblings are married, it's usually like you're alone and no longer have anyone to talk to. So that access to find a partner is also finally limited.

6. Stuck on wedding plans

Always take it easy and say that you will find the right match until you finally get married. You also miss all your chances to get to know your male or female friends. Try multiplying your friends first, maybe you will find someone who is really right for you.

7. Comparing potential new partners with old ones

It's natural to compare new people you're dating with someone you've known before, but this comparison will only prevent you from getting to know the other person's unique personality that your ex doesn't have.

"Trust me, no two people are exactly the same and often the new person may be more positive," says Lisa.

8.Seeing the whole negative

If you think you'll never find someone, that's your reality. If you open your mind, heart and eyes, there may be amazing possibilities all around you. Being open and walking around with a smile, will make a difference in your life.

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